Public Sex

13Dec05

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In September, two students at the University of Pennsylvania were having sex against a dorm room window without a shade. Some dude from the school took some pictures and posted them on his blog as seen above. The student who took and posted the pics got in trouble with the university when the woman engaging in the public sex said that posting the pics created a hostile environment around the school since she feared being identified. Well, perhaps you shouldn’t smash your buttocks up against a window unless you’re looking for attention. They wanted to be watched, or wanted the possibility of being watched to exist. Well, someone not only watched, but photographed.

This got me thinking about public sex. I was pretty reckless with my first partner. By reckless I mean that there wasn’t a lot of private places to get it on (we both lived at home) so we took our freakiness outdoors. My first time was on a beach and for the first good chunk of our relationship (about 8 months) we spent it getting it on in parks, cars, his boss’ office etc. Were we trying to get caught? I don’t think so, but the chance of getting caught did make the sex very hot. Would I do that now? Probably not. I like the comfort of my bed and now I can’t get it on if my feet are cold. I’m an old fogey, but I’m ok with that.

Definitely grown,
Miz JJ



13 Responses to “Public Sex”  

  1. 1

    AAAAHHHHH!!! i see a booty!!! ha! ha! ha! so funny! i agree, if you don’t want your pic taken, don’t put it out there for folks to see. people are crazy… not that i haven’t done the same thing, i just didn’t get my picture taken (i hope).

  2. 2 Miz JJ

    Exactly. I am trying not to be too self-righteous because I have done some of the same shit, but I don’t remember it being that bad.

  3. 3

    it’s so funny b/c the apartment window that they’re leaning against looks like the apartment that i lived in my sr. year. only i would never go near the window as i lived on the 7th floor & there was no screen, so i feared falling out even when it was closed.
    btw, i love your profile pic, is that you, did you draw it?

  4. 4 Miz JJ

    @jacquelyn: No…the drawing is by a famous Jamaican artist J.McDonald Henry. I just love that picture. I just found a place to order it on-line and am anxiously awaiting its arrival.

  5. 5 sweetlime

    this story is off the chain. public sex is kinda exciting but you are right home girl should have thought about doing the do in front of a window before she cried “hositle environment” and she knows she needs to stop acting like everybody didn’t know she was freaky before this situation. if you are comfortable enough to show it all in the window you are pretty freaky and i’m sure it was no surprise to anyone on campus to hear the rumor about her. great post.

  6. 6 Miz JJ

    @sweetlime: public sex is very exciting, but there is definitely risk involved.

  7. 7 Georgiapeach

    Girl I haven’t enjoyed the excitement of dex outdoors in a longtime……
    I once had sex on a bulldozer. My boyfriend and I stopped in a construction development and got freaky on the bulldozer. Most spontaneous place I have ever had sex at.

  8. 8 Miz JJ

    @gp: Freak! Bulldozer…I have never done that one. I look back at all the great ‘public’ places I’ve had sex and laugh. My ex had an asshole boss so one night when he was working late I came into the office and we had sex on his desk. He said it would make him laugh everytime he had a meeting in there afterwards.

  9. 9 Georgiapeach

    lol. Sex in the office is great. Especailly on the boss’s desk I would suppose. My boyfriend and I had sex on the conference table a lot of times..lol.

  10. 10 That Girl Tam

    Damn, I can’t even remember the last time I had sex in public. My first car got a lot of that though!! HAHAHAH!! My college boyfriend and I would pull over into dark parking lots and go nuts. I think the closest thing I’ve done in recent years is giving my husband head while we’re on the road!

  11. 11 Brea

    I’m definitely a big fan of sex outside the bedroom. My new favorite spot is in front of the fireplace. But come summertime – outdoors for sure!

  12. 12 Miz JJ

    @that girl tam: Car sex…good times. Has anyone ever caught you going down on your husband on the road?

    @brea: Fireplace…how romantic!

  13. 13 msjaim

    i miss those spontaneous urges!!! my ex and I hooked up @ the music box theatre right before spike & mikes sick & twisted cartoon festival :) ..lolol..hooked up in the car too,messed around on the stairs of the art institute… oh man.. to be in love and willing to be wild again!…


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